Slide and Glide
This one I originally learned form an uncle of mine who told me of this great technique he used to give women orgasms during intercourse that had never had one during intercourse before. A few years later I saw that a book (by the title of "The Perfect Fit" had been written about a very similar technique, but with much fluff added to fill up 100 or so pages. This technique relies on stimulating your partners clitoris with the friction and pressure from your upper pubic region (right above your pubic bone) which we will call the Friction Zone. The Slide and Glide Technique. The technique is done in the missionary position (there is a Woman on top variation that I will go over later). Make sure your partner is well lubricated, and I would recommend starting with the tease & please technique, until you are almost all the way in and then start do this technique.
The Slide and Glide Technique:
1. 1 - In the missionary position, make sure your partner's clitoris and upper vaginal area is well lubricated. (With her own juices, you saliva, Astroglide, Wet, etc.)
2. 2 - Ask the woman to spread her vaginal lips with her hands, when she does this put your penis in up to the base and rest the Friction Zone on her clitoris.
3. 3 - Put your weight on her body, and reach down and grab her ass and spread the cheeks apart.
4. 4 - Now start sliding up and down on her (not in and out, you penis should remain in completely inside her all the way to the base as you move. To do this you will need to grab her shoulders or the edge of the bed with both hands and push off with your toes as well. As you do all of this make sure that the greatest friction between you and her is where the Friction Zone and her clitoris meet. This might all sound really complicated but it is actually very easy, and after a few minutes you and her will be gliding back and forth on a sweet layer of sweat.
5. 5 - Continue until she has at least one orgasm. Keep moving and try not to break the friction.
How to Screw Her Good! If you follow the techniques above you will be a good lover but you want to be a Great Lover so here is the icing on the cake. Many men just thrust in and out over and over again, or worse just put it in and pound. While many women do like to be pounded on occasion or after they have warmed up with an orgasm or two, the same thing over and over again can get quite boring. It is best to vary the techniques that you use and to vary the types, depth, speed, and angles of your thrusts as well as the positions that you are thrusting in. Just as well don't get carried away and keep changing positions every couple of minutes if your partner really enjoys the one you are in and is getting the stimulation that she needs for an orgasm. To be a great lover you have to learn to read your lover adapt and go with the flow and still be able to take the lead. You need to learn the way of your lover, what she desires and what she does not desire, what spots get her off and what really turns her off. These things come with time. That is why the sex should get better the longer you are with someone not worse..
A few Suggestions:
1. 1 - Always tease a bit and make sure that your lover is fully aroused and lubricated before penetration.
2. 2 - Make sure your lover is highly aroused and almost coming before full penetration.
3. 3 - Thrust at different angles in the same position to stimulate all the walls of the vagina. Try riding high and low, left and right in the same position to stimulate all of her vaginal walls.
4. 4 - Try different positions, variety is the spice of life.
5. 5 - Thrust at different speeds, fast, slow, and medium.
6. 6 - Thrust hard, soft and teasingly.
7. 7 - Once in a while pull out and re-enter.
8. 8 - Try thrust in a winding circular motion going in and coming out.
9. 9 - Put you penis all the way in and slide up and down and left and right and in circles clockwise and counterclockwise, without moving your penis in and out.